How do you start to live fully again after having suffered a great loss? How do we pick up our daily chores and activities. How do we start to feel joy without guilt and feeling like we do something wrong. As if laughter isn't allowed while grieving.
It has been a week since Tara died and we miss her every hour of the day but we are also trying to move forward. Yesterday we have buried her ashes but in the meantime we are also thinking about a new puppy. We've always had a dog and the emptiness is screaming to be filled by a furry little rascal to love, to cherish and to care for.
After a long time without playing with my cards, I've picked up the Mystical Lenormand and asked how to embrace joy:
And I pulled Whip + Sun + Roads
I see this line of three as a encouragement to consciously choose joy and happiness over repetitive regrets and guilt. Grieving is good but it is also okay to take you mind of the sadness and enjoy the little things which might make you happy.