Seven empty
vessels and a decorated human skull at the foot of a large tree are the main components
of this beautiful card of the Wildwood tarot.
It is something entirely different than its RW
counterpart which is all about fantasy ,illusion and options.
Perhaps it
is not according to the guidebook but this is what I read in the card:
What stands
out to me is the fact there are all kinds of different bowls. Most of the time
when we think of mourning we immediately remember our greatest loss, our
biggest bowl. The person we miss the most, a situation which has scarred us intensely.
But I've learned the amount of grief increases by various losses (bowls). Sometimes we mourn parts
of us we had to let go in order to move on to the next phase of our life (skull). So
did I had to let go of being a mother of little children, in order to become a
mother of adult women. I had to let go of the town I grew up in so I could follow
my husband to a strange part of my country for a job he had found there. My piano was sold because I couldn't play anymore (neck injury) There are also minor events
which I mourn for instance the chopping of the most beautiful Cherry Blossom tree by my neighbors.
This is not
the place to list my greatest losses; the things I mourn the most. Everybody
has their own empty vessels but I guess you will understand what I am getting
at: Every day something is left behind. So our bowls gradually increase in
number. Does that mean I am crying all
the time. No, sometimes mourning can be as sweet as honey: the most beautiful
memories mixed with a longing for lost loves and sometimes finished with a topping of a few heartfelt
tears. I always say grief is the downside of love. The more you love the more
you will have to mourn.
When you
are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are
weeping for that which has been your delight.
~Kahlil Gibran
What a great, touching quote by Gibran. When I see that skull with the various bowls, my first thought is "I should have listened to ____'s wisdom." But then it also makes me think, "I wonder which choice of cup ____ would think would bring me joy and peace now?"
ReplyDeleteThat is also one way of looking as this card. I have the feeling with this deck you can approach the cards from various angles, depending on your mood or intuitive response to the card
DeleteDefinitely one of the more beautiful Seven of Cups versions in my opinion! :)
DeleteYour whole post is lovely.
ReplyDeleteThank you my dear Sharyn
DeleteLovely post.
ReplyDeleteReflection and touching memory can be beautiful as you show. Writing is a way of making that so. I find a lot of my best pieces on the blog are when I touch the past with my heart,
Thank you PLN
DeleteThis reminds me of the book "Writing down the bones" by Natalie Goldberg, which is all about being truthful in your writing.
Touching the past can be soft as a breeze or the stroke of a feather.