Today’s card is the Seven of Rods from the Anna K tarot. We see two men in this depiction They are in conflict, fighting, attacking and defending. Usually I identify with the person defending the tower. I always have the feeling I have to defend my personal place and time in this household. A remnant of when my girls where younger and my husband was ill. But today I am not so sure this is only about my boundaries. We are living with three adult women in one house and it’s still difficult for me to see my girls that way because I am also still there mother who worries a lot and is quite controlling in nature J
So maybe this is a sign for me to let go of the reins a bit more and trust them to make their own decisions and let them make their own faults. Of course when they ask for help or guidance I will always be there for them. Seeing us resembled in this card the need for change is obvious. We all need our personal space. Since there is also a chance my S.I.L. will come and live with us for a few months there will be definitely need for some checking and/or maintenance on our personal fences and discussing some ground rules about "fair fighting".