For today I've drawn the Eight of Cups from the
Anna K Tarot. Similar as in the seven of
Rods from yesterday I have the feeling the main character isn't symbolizing just me.
This card feels more like the illustration of what is about to happen to our family in due course.
You all know I don’t use my cards for fortunetelling: This Eight of Cups
reminds me of an inevitable event. In my opinion this is about my eldest leaving home
and M and I are staying behind. And there is sadness in this depiction although
I am aware she is so ready for moving out. Her boyfriend has finished his studies
recently and is now going to apply for jobs. I do hope they will find something
nearby but nowadays you can’t be too picky. Anyway a familiar situation is left
behind and a new life is about to be found
Besides this
card made me think about S her moving out, this card is also about me and M being left behind and rearranging our eight cups. The stable situation of three women
together in one house is going to change for sure. Family dynamics will be shifting. To
be honest, although I trust we all will be alright in the end and for S it will
be a big adventure, I think it rather scary too.
Best of luck to S and her boyfriend as they begin to build their own "nest." I remember both the fear and excitement of that stage in my life. I am sure she will be talking with you on a regular basis as she navigates this new course. Maybe you could do a ritual/altar for her to wish her well?
ReplyDeleteThanks Bev. It is a pity S and I are spiritually on different paths but I think creating a visual spell for myself with some cards (like Kerry does) might help me to process some of the mixed emotions that I feel right now and help me to focus on a positive outcome fro all of us.
DeleteI suppose growing up and finding her own spiritual path is part of the process. But yes, a positive outcome would be a good focus~
DeleteWhen I was younger, I didn't think I had a spiritual path, and my mother was surprised and a little disappointed. Now my mother is surprised as I am walking it so consciously, more than she. Trust that what you have shared with S will stay with her and be a gift as and when she needs it :)
ReplyDeleteThank you. I do trust in that. We talk about it often; about the differences and the similarities of our paths. I am convinced we can walk our path side by side, each on on our own track.:)
DeleteI wish all three of you well with the shifts and transitions and reorganization. I like the depiction in this card because rather than appearing as someone leaving behind something unfulfilling, it really does embrace that sense of someone simply embarking on a new journey in life, with their loved ones sending them off. It's really nice in that warmth.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Olivia! We will be okay. Luckily we can get used to the idea, before she actually moves out. Leaving behind you safe haven is challenging but can also be supportive, knowing there is a place you can always return to.:)
DeleteHi Ellen! To us, the mothers, it is a big strong emotional experience to see "our babies" are growing up. We have mixed feelings, but we have to let them fly alone. I have a teenager boy and although he (is at secondary school) and lives with us, sometimes I can't believe he's too big and that one day, sooner or later, he will leave the nest :) Think you now have a son too! By sure S will be happy and fine and she knows her lovely mami is always there for her :) A big kiss my dear friend and a lot of Muchas Estrellas!!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks you for your everlasting encouragement to look at the bright side of life. This doesn't always come natural to me so a appreciate your input even more my friend
DeleteBig hug and many stars
I love this image as it shows the warm presence of watching and releasing. Taking that next stage of a journey, whether it's leaving home or moving on in some other way, is both sad and necessary for everyone. The elixir within the cups doesn't stay sweet if nothing moves or changes. I wish you and yours all the brightest blessings through this next part of the path :-)
ReplyDeleteThank you Margo. It is a bitter sweet drink, a mixture of lots of feeling for both me and my girls
Deletebut I am sure we'll manage somehow to focus on the more positive changes for all of us
Hugs