tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post4428307841879777274..comments2024-01-19T16:13:06.054+01:00Comments on Greylady's Hearth: Five of Rainbows – The Outsider opens the gateEllenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02617686222764658629noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post-71681923198173349542014-09-13T13:32:30.513+02:002014-09-13T13:32:30.513+02:00Refind.. That is so true. I believe when we were v...Refind.. That is so true. I believe when we were very young, loving ourselves was the natural thing to do. :)Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02617686222764658629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post-74601400977684903082014-09-13T11:54:06.932+02:002014-09-13T11:54:06.932+02:00So glad you are finding loving acceptance for your...So glad you are finding loving acceptance for yourself. That is such a powerful learning, and one that somehow many of us need to find and re-find. Neopagan Priestesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15389878173900385163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post-23996160014665323832014-09-12T16:24:47.784+02:002014-09-12T16:24:47.784+02:00Thank you much my dear Las Magas Your comments alw...Thank you much my dear Las Magas Your comments always brighten up my day!!!<br />You are such a warm and caring woman. I have already cup coffee and I am enjoying it right now :DEllenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02617686222764658629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post-71174183368483349832014-09-12T15:44:44.440+02:002014-09-12T15:44:44.440+02:00Hi Ellen!!! You are a great person and a good frie...Hi Ellen!!! You are a great person and a good friend! Sometimes we have still traces of disappointments we have had, probably those people didn't appreciate us and our values, so they don't deserve not a bit of our concern about them :) The gate is opened...take a coffee and enjoy every minute :D A kiss and Muchas Estrellas!!!!Las Magas https://www.blogger.com/profile/14727768933454681770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post-5778163778937523522014-09-12T15:08:47.282+02:002014-09-12T15:08:47.282+02:00ha ha I will!! I'bet we'll have a lot to t...ha ha I will!! I'bet we'll have a lot to talk about over tea and lots of goodies to go with it.<br />Yes I've been angry too, often to cover up my sadness of feeling left out. Nowadays I like my own companionship. And if someone is coming over, they have to put up with who I really am :)Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02617686222764658629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post-32134057475991917012014-09-12T14:40:56.380+02:002014-09-12T14:40:56.380+02:00I often have that left out feeling. It does make m...I often have that left out feeling. It does make me feel like a small child but it also ticks me off royally that I let it bother me. Promise me if you are going out for tea you'll ask me and I'll promise you the same...Sharyn Mallow Woerzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17776056375534578046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post-3441711349154647032014-09-12T13:59:49.545+02:002014-09-12T13:59:49.545+02:00Labeling and or judging is a well known defense sy...Labeling and or judging is a well known defense system to insure you are better/different than the ones being judged <br />I think everybody does it and are mostly unaware of it. Living in the present moment will surely shed some light over over these recurrent thoughts :)Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02617686222764658629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post-21333722506043660792014-09-12T12:29:13.022+02:002014-09-12T12:29:13.022+02:00I bet almost everyone at some time in their lives ...I bet almost everyone at some time in their lives feels like an outsider, like they don't belong or are not accepted. When I remember that, this feeling doesn't seem so personal. I think my labels and categories are a part of the problem. When I start grouping people by what they have or how they look, I'm placing myself behind that locked gate.thesycamoretreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15182019323050600440noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post-7727197829869610112014-09-12T12:23:14.715+02:002014-09-12T12:23:14.715+02:00I fully agree. I am so much more confident about w...I fully agree. I am so much more confident about who I am and gradually it is showing in everything. Posture, smile, assertiveness:you name it! :)<br />Thanks for stopping by!Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02617686222764658629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8158245992923239671.post-88863309600106862372014-09-12T11:42:57.800+02:002014-09-12T11:42:57.800+02:00Yes, it can be a temptation to padlock and barrica...Yes, it can be a temptation to padlock and barricade the doors when we have been consistently hurt by others and feel the world is against us. Self-acceptance and love of oneself is the only way forwards at such times I feel. If we can fully accept ourselves we then give off a different, more positive kind of energy, which in turn provides more chance of attracting the 'right' people and situations towards us.Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17530748504622747893noreply@blogger.com